Writers are not always more interesting than the stories they write, but real people are. Yesterday, I had a 9:30 am appointment for which I showed at exactly 9:30 am. Surprised, the person I met looked at her wall clock and exclaimed, “It’s exactly 9:30!” That brought back memories of my first big job out of college, as a sales rep for Xerox Corporation in Fairbanks, Alaska. The people in Fairbanks judged you on those individual merits that every person has, not on accomplishments or wealth. The guy in front of me in the line at McDonalds, once, was a multi-millionaire but the people behind the counter were better dressed. I learned that the first thing potential buyers cared to know about me is, was I reliable. My first chance to demonstrate reliability was to show up when I said I would.
That tendency, to judge people on their personal merits, served me well in Fairbanks. It took me from a $3.50/hr job as a parking lot attendant to a non paying job as an assistant to U.S. Senator Mike Gravell, to the $6,000/month job with Xerox. All because people I barely knew recommended me to someone looking for a reliable person.
Meaning, life is more than writing. Or editing or publishing or marketing or whatever you do in the writing life. Life includes you. So, use the comments section to let us know a bit about you when you’re not writing. Me, I enjoy living in south Florida with my lady of 26 years. Beside writing, playing video games, and being president of our condo association, I spend an inordinate amount of time opening & closing the lanai door to let the cat in and out.
You??
Image: Vladimir Nabokov with a butterfly net